It may be daunting going to college, especially if none of your friends from home are going to the same college as you. It can be a scary thing starting a course not knowing anyone. But fear not, we are here to share some of the many ways to make friends.
Making friends in your Accommodation
The people you will probably meet first are those you live with. Organise different things to do with each other - you could go out for a meal, go to the cinema or find a shared interest to bond over. These might be the people you end up going out with, and it's a good start if ye can get along, so introduce yourself to them and take the time to find out more about them at the earliest possible opportunity.
Through your Students' Union
MISU runs a range of Clubs & Socs, where everyone involved has something in common. It would be worthwhile to join some of these, or else set up your own. Clubs & Socs run a range of events throughout the year, which you can get involved in.
Becoming a Class Rep and/or Exec member would be beneficial, as you would be meeting the other Reps regularly, and you will get to know others from other years and courses, potentially becoming good friends.
There are also many teams in the college, which will be looking out for new members each academic year. If you have any interest in any of them, it would be worth trying out.
Within your Class
There are regular class events held throughout the year. If possible, it would be advisable to try to attend these, as it will help you to get to know people in your class better.
Don’t be afraid to talk to strangers in your class, they are most likely feeling the same way as you are. It can be hard for some people to go up and talk to strangers, but it possibly is the best way to meet new friends.
If you need more support:
If you do feel like you’re struggling, there are places to go. You can call in to us the Students Union for a chat. We will be willing to talk to you and discuss any possible issues you may be having. There is also the chaplaincy, which gives free tea/coffee, where you can sit and have a chat too. In Thurles, there is a chaplain who you can speak to also. You shouldn’t ever feel like you’re alone in Mary I, and we will try our best to avoid that situation arising. In situations where you are feeling overwhelmed and very upset, there are counselling services available on both campuses, so drop into them and they will be able to help you.